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José’s Guide to Retiring in Portugal’s Algarve Region on $2,800 a Month

By: Dr. Steve Bettner aka José 🌍 Introduction: Living Like José in Europe I promised you I’d share pathways to “Living Like José” — not someday, but right now. That means two things: Last time, we explored Panama. Today, we’re hopping across the Atlantic to Portugal’s Algarve region — a sun-soaked stretch of coastline thatContinue reading “José’s Guide to Retiring in Portugal’s Algarve Region on $2,800 a Month”

🌴 Retire in Paradise: Malaysia — The Southeast Asian Secret to Living Like José

By: Dr. Steve Bettner aka José Welcome back to the Retire in Paradise series — your personal roadmap to living like José. We’ve already unpacked Panama as a smart, affordable option for retiring or living well on your terms. But now, we’re going to swing the compass East — all the way to Malaysia. IfContinue reading “🌴 Retire in Paradise: Malaysia — The Southeast Asian Secret to Living Like José”

José’s Guide to Retiring in Panama on $2,500 a Month: Live Better, Spend Less, and Build the Life You Actually Want

Can you really retire in paradise on just $2,500/month? You bet. Welcome to José’s Guide to Retiring in Panama—a practical roadmap for digital nomads, early retirees, and anyone ready to escape the rat race.

🌞 Mondays Don’t Have to Feel Like Mondays – A Mexican Fisherman Blog 🌊

By: Dr. Steve Bettner Good morning, friend. It’s Monday. But what if I told you Monday doesn’t have to feel like Monday? You know what I mean—that dragging weight of obligation, the invisible pressure to get serious again, to grind, to produce, to “be productive.” But here’s the thing: not every Monday has to startContinue reading “🌞 Mondays Don’t Have to Feel Like Mondays – A Mexican Fisherman Blog 🌊”

The Mexican Fisherman’s Guide to AI-Resilient Careers (and What to Do Instead of Going Back to School)

By: Dr. Steve Bettner You know the story—the Mexican fisherman who catches just enough fish for the day, enjoys time with family, plays music with friends, naps in the afternoon, and lives life on his own terms. Then along comes a consultant trying to convince him to build a business empire just to retire andContinue reading “The Mexican Fisherman’s Guide to AI-Resilient Careers (and What to Do Instead of Going Back to School)”

Letting Go, Looking Up: A Life Lesson I Learned at Age Five

In 1978, I watched a red, white, and blue balloon slip from my hand and vanish into the Texas sky. I was five-and devastated. That balloon was more than just a toy—it was my first lesson in ambition, loss, and learning when to hold on… and when to let go. Decades later, I still see it rising.

Stop Pretending You’re José (The Mexican Fisherman) — You’re Not.

We all say we want the life of the Mexican fisherman—simple, free, on our own terms. But let’s be honest: most people are still stuck in 9-5s, dreaming instead of living. I was too… until I took the leap. Now I wake up without an alarm, never miss a moment with my family, and make money while I sleep—thanks to Sparky AI. If you’re done pretending and ready to actually *be* Jose, this blog is for you.

Live Like José: What Does José Do When José Doesn’t Know What to Do?

When life gets loud and uncertain, even José—the wise, simple fisherman—needs to step away and find clarity. In this blog, discover what José does when he doesn’t know what to do. Whether it’s work, love, or life’s big questions, the answer isn’t always in the hustle. It’s in the hush. Through solitude, nature, and listening for God’s whisper in the breeze, José shows us a better way to navigate the unknown.

“If You Don’t Leave Now, You’ll Never Become a Man” — Why Parents Must Let Their Grown Children Grow

There are few issues more emotionally complicated than family. We love our children fiercely. As parents, our instincts tell us to protect, to comfort, to make life easier where we can. But sometimes… love looks like letting go.

This blog is not going to sit well with everyone. It may even challenge or offend people I care deeply for. That’s okay. Sometimes truth stings before it heals.

At the heart of this message is a hard truth I believe down to my core: adult children should not live with their parents—unless there is a true emergency, a health crisis, or a major life transition requiring temporary support. And even then, it must be temporary.

We justify these arrangements as “smart financial planning” or “helping them get on their feet.” But in truth, we may be doing more harm than good. We’re shielding them from the very thing that could shape their character and future: struggle.

Summer Vibes, Great Music, and Unforgettable Memories: Catch Old Dominion on Tour

Looking for the perfect summer outing with family or friends? Catch Old Dominion on their “How Good Is That” World Tour and make memories that last. From epic tailgates with devoted fans (the Odies) to surprise on-stage invites and crowd-sourced setlists, this band brings heart, humor, and pure talent to every show. Whether you know their name or just their hits, one night with Old Dominion will have you singing along — and living like José.