By: Dr. Steve Bettner aka JosĂ© Welcome back to the Retire in Paradise series — your personal roadmap to living like JosĂ©. We’ve already unpacked Panama as a smart, affordable option for retiring or living well on your terms. But now, we’re going to swing the compass East — all the way to Malaysia. IfContinue reading “🌴 Retire in Paradise: Malaysia — The Southeast Asian Secret to Living Like JosĂ©”
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Live Like José: What Does José Do When José Doesn’t Know What to Do?
When life gets loud and uncertain, even José—the wise, simple fisherman—needs to step away and find clarity. In this blog, discover what José does when he doesn’t know what to do. Whether it’s work, love, or life’s big questions, the answer isn’t always in the hustle. It’s in the hush. Through solitude, nature, and listening for God’s whisper in the breeze, José shows us a better way to navigate the unknown.
“If You Don’t Leave Now, You’ll Never Become a Man” — Why Parents Must Let Their Grown Children Grow
There are few issues more emotionally complicated than family. We love our children fiercely. As parents, our instincts tell us to protect, to comfort, to make life easier where we can. But sometimes… love looks like letting go.
This blog is not going to sit well with everyone. It may even challenge or offend people I care deeply for. That’s okay. Sometimes truth stings before it heals.
At the heart of this message is a hard truth I believe down to my core: adult children should not live with their parents—unless there is a true emergency, a health crisis, or a major life transition requiring temporary support. And even then, it must be temporary.
We justify these arrangements as “smart financial planning” or “helping them get on their feet.” But in truth, we may be doing more harm than good. We’re shielding them from the very thing that could shape their character and future: struggle.
Summer Vibes, Great Music, and Unforgettable Memories: Catch Old Dominion on Tour
Looking for the perfect summer outing with family or friends? Catch Old Dominion on their “How Good Is That” World Tour and make memories that last. From epic tailgates with devoted fans (the Odies) to surprise on-stage invites and crowd-sourced setlists, this band brings heart, humor, and pure talent to every show. Whether you know their name or just their hits, one night with Old Dominion will have you singing along — and living like José.
I’m Back: Reintroducing The Mexican Fisherman and the Mission to Live Like José
Life knocked me down. But the spirit of José pulled me back up.
After years away, I’m returning to the roots of what matters most: simplicity, presence, and purpose. The Mexican Fisherman story isn’t just a parable — it’s a way of life. One I lost… and just found again. Join me as I reboot this mission to Live Like JosĂ© — and share the real, raw, and joyful ride through family, food, faith, fun, and freedom.
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